Answering to the question: ARE YOU A FEMINIST? by Juhong Min
Being a feminist is to be a person who changes society by claiming that women and men exist equally. I represent myself as a feminist, with pride, since my parents have carefully nurtured me not to internalize the gender stereotypes inside. Since childhood, learning the identity which was being discriminated, such as gender, I recognized that women take the largest number among minorities, and that gender discrimination spreads both in public and private sector.
I always have been a feminist. However, Korean society has started to treat ‘feminist’ as an identity to attack especially around the internet communities. If you don't deny the question "Are you a feminist?", it's as if you claim superiority and domination of women, causing social division. Moreover, women claiming gender equality, reading books about gender discrimination, and sympathizing with other people's discriminatory experiences are all being disparaged. A female celebrity is being criticized just because she read a book about sexism called “Kim Ji-young, Born 1982. Just because I read a feminism book at school, I was asked if I belong in the Womad(*Internet misandry community) from a male teacher. Recently, the police have started to investigate the criminals who damaged the poster of Seoul mayor feminist candidates.
Interpersonal and institutional sexism is a huge and solid wall that blocks women's equal rights; including becoming a feminist, revealing oneself to be a feminist, to be honest about women's rights: to resist discrimination. Korean women are in an environment where it is difficult to say their opinion out loud. This is the biggest problem Korean women are now facing, and they need an environment where they can confidently become feminists.
This phenomenon was not first started in Korea. I have analyzed this phenomenon as backlash, the strong opposition against feminism, which was accompanied the long history
together since feminism has started. South Korea's feminism has experienced a rapid growth recently and so the backlash came along. But why? Do you hate to let go of power even though you acknowledge that women are being discriminated? Backlash, which promotes as if claiming for the equal rights are "wrong", doesn’t feel right to me.
In a survey of men and women in their 20s and over 30s in 2019, more than 59% of men in their 20s agreed with the answer, "I think feminism is female supremacy." Next, in response to the question, "Is the law fairly enforced between men and women?" more than half of the respondents in their 20s said that laws are disadvantageous to men. Men are considering feminism a major contributor to the new reality of ‘male discrimination’.
In 2020, I joined a feminism club, and heard students talking 'not to deal with' the students in feminism club. On the poster to refrain from saying prejudiced words from the feminist club in 2020, there was a graffiti saying, "There were many haters among feminists." I experienced the backlash caused by the misconception of feminism in the act of attacking feminism with a shallow understanding.
The aforementioned statistics, and personal experiences, respectively, enable us to understand backlash based on the minds of who do not want to be deprived of non-visual power and their vague understanding of feminism. Although women's entry into society has increased, Korean society is still a male-centered society and male opinions are the mainstream. Feminism has been damaged by this backlash to assert itself. So now even women are wary to mention of feminism. In modern society, gender cannot exist in independently but intersects with the problem. If I pursue feminism and follow only women's rights, I will have to face practical limitations. I thought that the start of feminism was from women, but ultimately a society that guarantee the right to live equally despite all kinds of identities should be the arrival. Therefore, this problem that has come for women will be expanded to a task that everyone needs to solve. Instead of being silent on the victims, I raise a problem and constantly reason, extend
the harm of hate and discrimination to everyone’s problem, solidarity with movements that resist discrimination of various forms. This huge backlash is counterevidence that feminism is changing society. The signal of change has been thrown and our role is t o lead the revolution. I am always aiming for a society that can answer confidently li ke this.
"Are you a feminist?"
“Yes, I am, and will be. I oppose all forms of discrimination and hatred."